title: Preparing the school-age child for adoption.
abstract: The development of an adoptive relationship for children who have been in the limbo of foster care is a continuous process. It is unrealistic to expect these families to live happily ever after. Agencies must begin developing regular services to meet the special needs of the families being created. To a large extent the issues that will have to be worked through relate to the stages of preparation outlined in this paper. Each stage in the child's growth may activate unresolved issues around the grief at the biological parents' rejection, confusion about identity or difficulty in working through problems. Future adoptive home recruitment must take this into account by providing training and other supports to families considering adopting the older child.
mesh_terms: D000300:Adoption; D002648:Child; D002649:Child Abuse; D003717:Denial, Psychological; D004644:Emotions; D005581:Foster Home Care; D006801:Humans; D010287:Parent-Child Relations; D012649:Self Concept