Sexual confusion among certain college males.
In dealing with college age (18-22) males, clinical observations have shown a fairly common inability to successfully form intimate relationships with same-age females. This problem often appears to be due to an inability to bond and trust that is rooted in the formative years in the nuclear home. When this happens, the young male frequently develops a fear of being sexually abnormal, perhaps even homosexual. This manifests itself in shame, anxiety, depression, denial, reaction formation, performance anxiety, concern about being found out, isolation, substance abuse and, occasionally, acting out. Getting such persons to admit these fears is generally extremely difficult, requiring gentle and empathetic, but persistent, probing on the part of the therapist. Therapy consists of understanding and acceptance by the client that these fears are most often reactive, that they are commonly held, and that when they are seen in proper perspective, they often diminish. The present paper reviews some of the literature on sexual developmental issues of the adolescent male as a backdrop for this problem. The specific difficulties related to reactive homophobia are explored, and some therapeutic approaches suggested.
Goff
J L
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School of Business Administration, Fort Lewis College, Durango, Colorado 81301.
D000293:Adolescent; D000328:Adult; D003221:Confusion / Q000523:psychology*; D003717:Denial, Psychological; D003866:Depressive Disorder / Q000523:psychology; D005783:Gender Identity; D006716:Homosexuality / Q000523:psychology*; D006801:Humans; D007389:Internal-External Control; D008297:Male; D011606:Psychosexual Development; D012725:Sexual Behavior; D012925:Social Conformity; D013406:Suicide, Attempted / Q000523:psychology