A note on consummation and termination.
The sensation sometimes expressed by analytic patients, most notably during termination of having left some "unfinished business" (to which they hope to return) is not necessarily simply a judgment about the analysis; frequently it is an affective component of the wish for consummation which has not been granted by the analysis. Simultaneously, it expresses the defense against that very consummation. The wish to give the analyst a gift is in some sense the direct opposite, or more correctly, expresses the defense more openly as a bribe and warning to the analyst that he should not expect or hope for consummation of the instinctual wishes which have been the center of analytic work; i.e., it is a defense against the fulfillment of those wishes almost as if the analyst, by attempting to analyze them, insists upon their enactment. Nevertheless, and despite the apparent contradiction, both affects, which serve similar functions, may appear simultaneously.
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