The absence of the paternal penis.
Girls' experiences of object loss, in conjunction with female anatomical structure, may lend themselves to a particular genital anxiety regarding openness and emptiness. The relational void in giving up the mother as love object may lead to an internal self-representation of a "hole" to be filled, much as the mouth sucks the pacifier in the absence of the nipple. This image may then be extended to the genital representation. In turning to the father, a girl may find that she lacks a relationship with him in the relational space opened up by the loss of the mother; the penis is symbolically withheld from her in the father's relational distance. This lack of sexual and relational gratification, it is proposed, may be schematized by a female as her body being empty of something. The father's absence--the absence of the paternal penis--may lead to an absence of the mental representation of the vagina and to an inhibition of the role the vagina then plays for a woman in sexual desire. Vaginal repression may serve to disguise object hunger that might otherwise be experienced as vaginal longing. An abbreviated clinical vignette, revolving around a masturbatory fantasy, is offered in partial illustration of the thesis.
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Psychoanalytic Institute of Northern California, USA. Elised@verio.com
D005201:Fantasy; D005219:Father-Child Relations; D005260:Female; D005783:Gender Identity; D006801:Humans; D007989:Libido; D008297:Male; D009034:Mother-Child Relations; D009769:Object Attachment; D010413:Penis; D011573:Psychoanalytic Interpretation; D011574:Psychoanalytic Theory; D011606:Psychosexual Development; D012094:Repression, Psychology; D020018:Sexual Dysfunctions, Psychological / Q000523:psychology