title: Factors and their origins in mate selection and choice among humans: implications for individual psychotherapy and counseling.
abstract: A mechanism of mate selection in humans is proposed and elaborated. It is further proposed that this mechanism constitutes one of the important factors for stability and the necessary longevity of the procreational dyad and therefore the procreational success of humans as a species. The concepts and mechanisms of assortative mating (homogamy) and that of complementarity of temperaments of the mates (heterogamy) which guide such selections are described, the relationships between the two are explored, and finally their possible early developmental origins are proposed. Evidence from a small study of 20 married couples' responses in temperament tests is offered as well as some illustrative case histories all pointing to those mechanisms. The argument is based mainly on principles of evolutionary psychology.
authors.affiliation: Department of Psychiatric Medicine, ECU School of Medicine, Greenville, NC, USA.
authors.forename: N
authors.initials: N
authors.lastname: Pediaditakis
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D003376:Counseling; D003380:Courtship; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D008393:Marriage / Q000523:psychology*; D008875:Middle Aged; D011613:Psychotherapy; D012098:Reproduction; D013694:Temperament