title: Doing or being?
abstract: The founder of Aikido, Morihei Ueshiba, would occasionally distill the essence of the art into three simple shapes--a circle, a square, and a triangle. These are three basic ways of dealing with what's coming at you. The square is the simplest. It is about, essentially, doing nothing. The saying here is from the old spiritual: "I shall not be moved." You meet the challenge head on. The triangle is about forward motion--attack, cutting right to the heart of what is coming at you, or cutting right past it to the space beyond. The circle is often the most interesting space. The circle is not about standing ground or cutting through. The circle is about dancing with whatever is headed your way. The real danger lies in being stuck in any one mode--perpetually intransigent, always flailing away in attack mode, or forever slip-sliding through one dance step after another. It is only when our response is embodied in who we are that we will have the power truly to lead other people.
authors: J
authors: J
authors: Flower
mesh_terms: D003220:Conflict, Psychological; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D007857:Leadership; D016139:Martial Arts / Q000523:psychology*; D009936:Organizational Innovation; D008486:Physician Executives / Q000523:psychology; D010934:Planning Techniques; D011209:Power, Psychological; D014481:United States