title: Engaging distortions: are we idealizing marriage?
abstract: The present study was an investigation of the premarital status of engagement in terms of relationship satisfaction and marital expectations using the Evaluation and Nurturing Relationship Issues, Communication and Happiness (ENRICH) Marital Satisfaction Scale (EMS) and its two subscales of Idealistic Distortion (ID) and Marital Satisfaction (MS) (D. G. Fournier, D. H. Olson, & J. M. Druckman, 1983). There were 104 students (23 men and 81 women), of which 15 were married, 19 were engaged, and 70 had extended dating relationships. On average, participants had been in the relationship for 3.8 years, and the mean age was 22 years. Results demonstrated that individuals engaged to be married had significantly higher idealistic distortion scores (M = 86.89) than did either married individuals (M = 56.67) or those in extended dating relationships (M = 61.19). Finally, a negative relation was found between length of relationships and marital satisfaction subscores. Results are discussed in light of factors contributing to such idealized thinking.
authors.affiliation: Department of Behavioral Sciences, Christian Brothers University, Memphis, TN 38104, USA.
authors.forename: J M
authors.initials: JM
authors.lastname: Bonds-Raacke
authors.forename: E S
authors.initials: ES
authors.lastname: Bearden
authors.forename: N J
authors.initials: NJ
authors.lastname: Carriere
authors.forename: E M
authors.initials: EM
authors.lastname: Anderson
authors.forename: S D
authors.initials: SD
authors.lastname: Nicks
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D003376:Counseling; D005191:Family Characteristics; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D008149:Love; D008297:Male; D008393:Marriage / Q000523:psychology* / Q000639:trends; D014481:United States