Mastery of postprostatectomy incontinence and impotence: his work, her work, our work.
OBJECTIVE
To describe couples' experiences of postprostatectomy incontinence and impotence.


METHODS
Descriptive, qualitative.


METHODS
Northeastern U.S. metropolitan area.


METHODS
Subsample of 20 (10 control and 10 intervention) couples from a large quantitative clinical trial of a Standardized Nursing Intervention Protocol (SNIP) postprostatectomy.


METHODS
Interviews were conducted using a semistructured guide. Data were analyzed using grounded theory techniques.


METHODS
Couples' experiences of coping with postprostatectomy incontinence and impotence.


RESULTS
Managing postprostatectomy incontinence and impotence required work. Men's work focused on regaining mastery and encompassed understanding incontinence as healing, mastering incontinence, networking, confronting impotence and putting it into perspective, and prioritizing. Wives were supportive by managing anxiety, encouraging mastery, putting impotence into perspective, and reassuring their spouses. Established routines brought couples through the experience together while strengthening intimacy. SNIP couples found the nurses to be sources of information, support, and affirmation.


CONCLUSIONS
Couples worked to deal with postprostatectomy incontinence and impotence within the context of surviving cancer and maintaining a loving relationship. This gave unique meaning to their symptoms and led the couples to value the fact that the men were alive and work toward regaining mastery. Mastery emerged as a key concept from the findings.


CONCLUSIONS
Nurses can gain from an enhanced understanding of postprostatectomy incontinence and impotence as meaningful within the greater context of patients having had cancer. Nurses can hasten couples' abilities to regain a sense of mastery by providing information, supporting couples' work, providing positive affirmation, and being available.
Maliski
S L
SL
School of Nursing, University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA), USA. s.maliski@verizon.net
Heilemann
M V
MV
McCorkle
R
R
D000223:Adaptation, Psychological; D000368:Aged; D016022:Case-Control Studies; D003430:Cross-Sectional Studies; D007172:Erectile Dysfunction / Q000451:nursing / Q000523:psychology*; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D008875:Middle Aged; D011183:Postoperative Complications / Q000451:nursing / Q000523:psychology* / Q000534:rehabilitation; D011468:Prostatectomy / Q000451:nursing / Q000534:rehabilitation*; D012944:Social Support; D018454:Spouses / Q000523:psychology*; D014549:Urinary Incontinence / Q000451:nursing / Q000523:psychology* / Q000534:rehabilitation