title: Learning the harsh realities of life: sexual violence, disillusionment, and meaning.
abstract: The purpose of this study was to explore how women find meaning in experiences of sexual violence committed by men close to them. Data were provided by 44 women who had participated in one of three studies I had conducted on women's responses to sexual abuse and assault by intimate others. The women's explanations for the violence they experienced, discussions of how they made sense of the violence, and references to the meaning or purpose of the violence in their lives were analyzed using grounded theory methods. The women indicated that their victimizing experiences had taught them "the harsh realities of life"; that is, the world is violent and society tolerates and, in some cases, promotes violence against women. This lesson forced them to take it upon themselves to create a better life. This psychosocial process of "taking it upon oneself" involved three tasks: pursuing one's own safety, taking justice into one's own hand, and making something good out of something bad. By accomplishing these tasks, the women found meaning in their suffering.
authors.affiliation: College of Nursing, Kent State University, Ohio 44242-0001, USA.
authors.forename: C B
authors.initials: CB
authors.lastname: Draucker
mesh_terms: D000223:Adaptation, Psychological; D000293:Adolescent; D000328:Adult; D001290:Attitude; D002650:Child Abuse, Sexual / Q000523:psychology*; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007179:Incest / Q000523:psychology*; D007389:Internal-External Control; D008016:Life Change Events; D008875:Middle Aged; D015404:Nursing Methodology Research; D011902:Rape / Q000523:psychology*; D012069:Religion and Psychology; D012449:Safety; D012648:Self Care; D012935:Social Justice; D012945:Social Values; D013179:Spouse Abuse / Q000523:psychology*; D011795:Surveys and Questionnaires; D014930:Women / Q000523:psychology*