title: Challenging the myths about parents' adjustment after the sudden, violent death of a child.
abstract: OBJECTIVE
  To examine three commonly held myths: (a) a child's death by suicide results in the worst parental outcomes compared with other causes of violent death, (b) divorce is not only more common among bereaved than nonbereaved married couples, it might be inevitable, and (c) "letting go and moving on" is an essential bereavement task needed for a satisfactory adjustment following the violent death of a child.
  
  
  METHODS
  Review of empirical evidence and critical reviews, review of Internet resources available to the general public, and the inclusion of original data obtained from a longitudinal, prospective study conducted by the authors.
  
  
  RESULTS
  Conclusive evidence was found to dispel two of the three myths, but sufficient evidence was not found to draw conclusions about the third myth regarding parents' adjustment to a child's suicidal death.
  
  
  CONCLUSIONS
  Myths in regard to parental bereavement are resistant to disconfirming evidence and they appear to persist among professional practitioners and the general public despite contrary empirical evidence.
authors.affiliation: School of Nursing, University of Washington, Box 357263, Seattle, WA 98195-7263, USA. samurphy@u.washington.edu
authors.forename: Shirley A
authors.initials: SA
authors.lastname: Murphy
authors.forename: L Clark
authors.initials: LC
authors.lastname: Johnson
authors.forename: Janet
authors.initials: J
authors.lastname: Lohan
mesh_terms: D000059:Accidents; D000223:Adaptation, Psychological; D000293:Adolescent; D000328:Adult; D001291:Attitude of Health Personnel; D001293:Attitude to Death; D001294:Attitude to Health; D001601:Bereavement; D002423:Cause of Death; D003645:Death, Sudden / Q000453:epidemiology / Q000209:etiology*; D004243:Divorce / Q000523:psychology; D005260:Female; D006708:Homicide; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D015404:Nursing Methodology Research; D010290:Parents / Q000523:psychology*; D011287:Prejudice; D012917:Social Adjustment; D013405:Suicide; D017741:Survivors / Q000523:psychology*