title: Perceptions of help given to healthy older mothers by adult daughters: ways of initiating help and types of help given.
abstract: Older mother-adult daughter dyads (N = 43) addressed two issues pertaining to the ways in which help is initiated (offered, requested, and imposed help) and type of help given (instrumental help, advice, and emotional support) a) mothers' reasoning about these aspects of help, and b) daughters' understanding of mothers' feelings. Both groups noted that mothers were most comfortable with offered help; however, mothers indicated equal comfort with requested or imposed help, while daughters felt mothers were more comfortable with requested help than imposed help. Mothers and daughters both felt that mothers were less comfortable receiving additional instrumental help or advice than emotional support. Reasons given for mothers' feelings indicated that mothers saw both positive and negative elements in the help given by their adult daughters. Overall, daughters demonstrated a good understanding of mothers' feelings about the helping relationship.
authors.affiliation: University of Toronto. tmartini@brocku.ca
authors.forename: Tanya S
authors.initials: TS
authors.lastname: Martini
authors.forename: Joan E
authors.initials: JE
authors.lastname: Grusec
authors.forename: Silvia Cortese
authors.initials: SC
authors.lastname: Bernardini
mesh_terms: D000203:Activities of Daily Living / Q000523:psychology*; D000328:Adult; D032721:Adult Children / Q000208:ethnology / Q000523:psychology*; D000367:Age Factors; D000368:Aged; D000369:Aged, 80 and over; D002170:Canada; D005060:Europe / Q000208:ethnology; D006172:Guyana / Q000208:ethnology; D006379:Helping Behavior; D006801:Humans; D007194:India / Q000208:ethnology; D016901:Intergenerational Relations / Q000208:ethnology*; D007407:Interviews as Topic; D008875:Middle Aged; D009035:Mothers / Q000523:psychology* / Q000706:statistics & numerical data; D012944:Social Support; D014481:United States / Q000208:ethnology