title: Sell a book and cook a dog: misery, memory and space from Siberian camps to Apartheid.
abstract: In this article, the life story of a Polish woman in South Africa is used to illustrate that stories of exile are 'matter out of place' in host countries. Space is a central category in both the story of exiles and in the collective history of receiving countries, but it has different emotional, social, cultural and political meanings. Sometimes stories of exile are denied a place in the social memory of a society. Therefore, recollection and making sense of experienced misery in foreign contexts is often a difficult and lonely undertaking. The article links the story to macro-political processes and attempts to answer questions regarding the consequences of the lack of meaningful space for exiles to remember. Collective and national memories and ceremonies are often exclusive and offer no place for 'alien' memories. Therapeutic repertoires often fail to address the emotional value of communal sharing a socio-cultural and (meta) physical space. It is argued that because the state does not take responsibility for providing a (symbolic) space for the mourning and reconciliation of people whose memories are out of place, transcultural psychiatry - its subsystem - will have to reflect on how to provide such a space.
authors.affiliation: University of Amsterdam,The Netherlands. P.I.M.vanDongen@uva.nl
authors.forename: Els
authors.initials: E
authors.lastname: van Dongen
mesh_terms: D000368:Aged; D000369:Aged, 80 and over; D001325:Autobiographies as Topic; D005260:Female; D006117:Grief; D006801:Humans; D008568:Memory; D011044:Poland / Q000208:ethnology; D011057:Politics; D011287:Prejudice; D011610:Psychosocial Deprivation; D012036:Refugees / Q000523:psychology*; D012800:Siberia; D012934:Social Isolation; D013019:South Africa; D013534:Survival / Q000523:psychology*