Gender differences in social support: a question of skill or responsiveness?
Spouses often report that wives provide better social support than husbands. Yet studies observing spouses' supportive interactions challenge this perception, finding no differences between husbands' and wives' supportive behaviors. This article offers reconciliation by suggesting that husbands and wives may differ, not in their skill at providing support, but in their responsiveness to their partners' changing needs over time. Observational and diary data from couples confirmed that, whereas husbands and wives did not differ on average in the support they provided each other, they did differ in the timing of that support. Wives tended to provide better support on days that their husbands experienced greater stress. However, when wives experienced greater stress, their husbands displayed both support and negativity.
Neff
Lisa A
LA
Department of Psychology, University of Toledo, Toledo, OH 43606-3390, USA. lisa.neff@utoledo.edu
Karney
Benjamin R
BR
D000223:Adaptation, Psychological / Q000502:physiology; D000328:Adult; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D008297:Male; D015588:Observer Variation; D012650:Self Disclosure; D012737:Sex Factors; D012919:Social Behavior; D012938:Social Perception; D012944:Social Support; D018454:Spouses / Q000523:psychology*; D013315:Stress, Psychological / Q000523:psychology; D013647:Task Performance and Analysis; D013997:Time Factors; D014743:Videotape Recording