title: Is there a special psychoanalytic love?
abstract: Although the analyst's role mandates a degree of detachment, analysts have often said that they offer patients a special kind of love. They have tended to equate that love with understanding, thus neutralizing the paradox but also diluting the love. When something more resembling a loving affect is sought, the suggestions include the love a scholar feels for his subject, the love that accompanies immersion in great literature, and love that is self-generated by deliberate efforts to move toward the patient or to generate empathy in oneself. But a form of love may also arise from the analyst's unique and relatively pure acquaintance with a person's "appeal," by which is meant the patient's effort to elicit responses from the analyst. Although the awareness of transference most obviously tends to immunize him, it also gives him a poignant "insider's" feel of the patient's appeal, since he is the target of that appeal while being unencumbered by the myriad considerations that would color his perception were he to regard himself as a proper object.
authors.affiliation: Weill Cornell Medical College, USA.
authors.forename: Lawrence
authors.initials: L
authors.lastname: Friedman
mesh_terms: D006801:Humans; D008149:Love; D010551:Personality; D010817:Physician-Patient Relations; D011575:Psychoanalytic Therapy