Becky's legacy: personal and professional reflections on loss and hope.
The author, a psychologist who has been specializing in end-of-life issues for over a decade, uses the death of his fiancée (Becky), following the withdrawal of a ventilator and the refusal to place her back on the machine, to discuss research and analysis of end-of-life care in the United States. After briefly discussing his own background, Becky's history, and their relationship, he details Becky's last weeks of life and the first weeks of his grieving process. This story provides a background for discussing end-of-life issues including what constitutes a "good death," concerns about aggressive treatment and the cost of care near the end of life, prognosis, advance directives, and demographic issues. There is also a major section on psychosocial issues that arise when a person is dying. The author concludes with a set of "lessons learned" as a result of his relationship with Becky and going through the dying process with her and her family.
Werth
James L
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Department of Psychology, University of Akron, Akron, OH 44325-4301, USA. jwerth@uakron.edu
D016223:Advance Directives; D001007:Anxiety; D001601:Bereavement; D017028:Caregivers; D003643:Death; D003693:Delirium; D003863:Depression; D005260:Female; D006689:Hodgkin Disease / Q000523:psychology; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D010358:Patient Participation / Q000523:psychology; D010551:Personality; D011788:Quality of Life; D012297:Right to Die; D012961:Sociology; D029181:Spirituality; D013727:Terminal Care / Q000523:psychology*; D014481:United States