title: Pronouns in marital interaction.
abstract: Recent studies in social psychology have found that the frequency of certain words in people's speech and writing is related to psychological aspects of their personal health. We investigated whether counts of "self" and "other" pronouns used by 59 couples engaged in a problem-solving discussion were related to indices of marital health. One spouse in each couple had a diagnosis of obsessive-compulsive disorder or panic disorder with agoraphobia; 50% of the patients and 40% of their spouses reported marital dissatisfaction. Regardless of patients' diagnostic status, spouses who used more second-person pronouns were more negative during interactions, whereas those who used more first-person plural pronouns produced more positive problem solutions, even when negative behavior was statistically controlled. Moreover, use of first-person singular pronouns was positively associated with marital satisfaction. These findings suggest that pronouns used by spouses during conflict-resolution discussions provide insight into the quality of their interactions and marriages.
authors.affiliation: University of Pennsylvania, Department of Psychology, Philadelphia, PA 19104, USA. simmonsr@psych.upenn.edu
authors.forename: Rachel A
authors.initials: RA
authors.lastname: Simmons
authors.forename: Peter C
authors.initials: PC
authors.lastname: Gordon
authors.forename: Dianne L
authors.initials: DL
authors.lastname: Chambless
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D002648:Child; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D009034:Mother-Child Relations; D011340:Problem Solving; D014705:Verbal Behavior; D014825:Vocabulary