When mothers have favourites: conditions under which mothers differentiate among their adult children.
Research has shown that mothers often differentiate among their adult children in terms of closeness and support; however, studies have not addressed why some mothers report preferences among children and others do not. To distinguish between mothers who do and do not report favouring some of their adult children, we used data from a within-family study in which 553 older mothers were interviewed about each of their children. Almost all of the mothers reported differentiating among their children regarding emotional closeness, confiding, or preference among caregivers. Multivariate analyses revealed that mothers' values and mother-child value similarity predicted which mothers differentiated among their children regarding closeness and confiding, whereas mothers' and children's demographic characteristics predicted which mothers differentiated regarding preferred caregivers. Black mothers were less likely than white mothers to differentiate when seeking a confidant; however, race played no role in mothers' likelihood of differentiating regarding emotional closeness or help during illness. Taken together, these findings indicate that differentiating among adult children is common; further, family-level predictors of mothers' differentiating mirror the patterns shown in dyad-level analyses of mothers' favouritism.
Jill Suitor
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Department of Sociology and Anthropology, Purdue University, West Lafayette, IN 47907, USA. jsuitor@purdue.edu
Sechrist
Jori
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Pillemer
Karl
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D000328:Adult; D032721:Adult Children; D001741:Black or African American / Q000706:statistics & numerical data; D000368:Aged; D002755:Choice Behavior; D005191:Family Characteristics / Q000208:ethnology; D006379:Helping Behavior; D006801:Humans; D008404:Massachusetts / Q000208:ethnology; D009034:Mother-Child Relations / Q000208:ethnology; D009035:Mothers / Q000523:psychology*; D015999:Multivariate Analysis; D012189:Retrospective Studies; D012494:Sampling Studies; D011795:Surveys and Questionnaires; D044465:White People / Q000706:statistics & numerical data