title: The harmony of family and the silence of women: sexual attitudes and practices among rural married women in northern Viet Nam.
abstract: Women in Viet Nam have long had to face various sexual and reproductive health problems, ranging from abortion to reproductive tract infections (RTIs) and sexual coercion. These issues have increasingly been addressed by scholars in the fields of public health and social sciences through sexual and reproductive health research and in other ways. Despite this, there remains a lack of in-depth information on attitudes and practices regarding sex and sexuality of Vietnamese women today. This paper in part responds to the knowledge gap by reporting on findings from qualitative research on sexual attitudes and practices among rural married women in a Northern rural community, measured against the broader social and cultural context. Twenty-five women in total were interviewed; and two focus group discussions were conducted. The findings show that women generally believe that men are (or should be) the initiators in sexual relations. Many women feel reluctant to refuse sex to their husbands or communicate openly about sex and sexuality. However, this paper also demonstrates that women are not totally passive in sexual relations. Women in this study used a range of strategies to negotiate their sexual life, and sometimes 'silence' is used as a form of agency in order to maintain harmony and happiness within the family.
authors.affiliation: Consultation of Investment in Health Promotion, Hanoi, Viet Nam. ha@cihp.org
authors.forename: Vu Song
authors.initials: VS
authors.lastname: Ha
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D000739:Anecdotes as Topic; D003466:Cultural Characteristics; D004291:Dominance-Subordination; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D008019:Life Style; D008393:Marriage / Q000523:psychology*; D012424:Rural Population; D012747:Sexual Partners / Q000523:psychology; D012931:Social Environment; D012945:Social Values; D018454:Spouses / Q000523:psychology*; D013240:Stereotyping; D011795:Surveys and Questionnaires; D014744:Vietnam