title: The grief experience of same-sex couples within an Irish context: tacit acknowledgement.
abstract: This study sought to explore the grief experience of same sex couples. To date, the majority of research in this area has focused on the bereavement experience of individuals whose partner has died from an AIDS/HIV-related illness. The research design used was descriptive exploratory. A multi-pronged sampling strategy was employed to generate participants. Seven people underwent in-depth interviews once the study had received ethical approval. Data were analysed by coding, comparing, and merging codes into higher order themes. Five themes subsequently emerged that captured the essence of the bereavement experience, namely:'tacit acknowledgement'; 'sculpting the distress'; 'multiple losses'; 'seeking support'; and 'journeying anew.' While not all bereaved gay or lesbian partners experience 'disenfranchized grief', particularly if their relationship with the deceased was not hidden, it is clear from the findings of this study that many of the participants did (Doka, 1989;Wallbank, 1998). Health care professionals need to consider their approach to people who identify themselves as gay or lesbian, if they are to provide support structures (formal and informal) to meet their unique needs.
authors.affiliation: Department of Nursing and Health Studies, St Angela's College, Sligo, Ireland.
authors.forename: Michelle
authors.initials: M
authors.lastname: Glackin
authors.forename: Agnes
authors.initials: A
authors.lastname: Higgins
mesh_terms: D001291:Attitude of Health Personnel; D005260:Female; D006117:Grief; D006716:Homosexuality / Q000523:psychology*; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D007494:Ireland; D008297:Male; D011287:Prejudice; D036301:Qualitative Research; D012919:Social Behavior; D018454:Spouses / Q000523:psychology*