title: 'We feel like one, they see us as two': new parents' discontent with postnatal care.
abstract: OBJECTIVE
  postnatal care has gone through remarkable changes, such as reducing the length of hospital stay and increasing the parents' responsibility. Focusing on dissatisfaction, this study describes how new parents experience postpartum care.
  
  
  METHODS
  cross-sectional, population-based study, based on questionnaires.
  
  
  METHODS
  1474 parents.
  
  
  RESULTS
  the questionnaires, posted six months after childbirth, addressed how parents experienced postnatal care. The data were analysed with descriptive statistics and content analysis.
  
  
  CONCLUSIONS
  a main finding was that the close emotional attachment between the parents was not always supported by staff. The father was treated as an outsider and the care was described as 'a woman's world'. The asymmetric encounter between parents and staff was pronounced with respect to decision-making, and some designated this as 'paternalism'. A great deal of the discontent with health care may be due to organisational failure, and the postnatal care should be more prioritised in the health-care organisation.
  
  
  CONCLUSIONS
  midwives should acknowledge that parents, irrespective of gender, should have equal opportunities as parents during postpartum care as parenting is a joint project.
authors.affiliation: Obstetrics and Gynaecology, Department of Clinical Science, Umeå University, Umeå, Sweden.lotta.ellberg@obgyn.umu.se
authors.forename: L
authors.initials: L
authors.lastname: Ellberg
authors.forename: U
authors.initials: U
authors.lastname: Högberg
authors.forename: V
authors.initials: V
authors.lastname: Lindh
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D000739:Anecdotes as Topic; D001291:Attitude of Health Personnel; D003142:Communication; D003430:Cross-Sectional Studies; D003696:Delivery Rooms; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D015404:Nursing Methodology Research; D010290:Parents / Q000523:psychology*; D017060:Patient Satisfaction / Q000706:statistics & numerical data*; D011181:Postnatal Care / Q000523:psychology / Q000706:statistics & numerical data*; D049590:Postpartum Period / Q000523:psychology*; D011369:Professional-Patient Relations; D011795:Surveys and Questionnaires; D013548:Sweden / Q000453:epidemiology; D055815:Young Adult