title: Sexual violence, marital guidance, and Victorian bodies: an aesthesiology.
abstract: This essay examines some of the emotional rules, encoded in grammars of representation and framed within law and prescriptive marital advice literature, regarding the expression of male sexual aggressivity within the bedroom. Despite the general Victorian idealization of marriage, many wives suffered physical and sexual abuse at the hands of their husbands, marital rape drawing particular attention from early feminists, psychologists, physicians, and evolutionary physiologists. In the 1870s, a belief that unrestrained sexual license was a symptom of degeneration led these commentators to consider marital rape particularly harmful to husbands. By the turn of the century, however, the focus of this harm had nominally shifted to women, who might become frigid if forced to submit to sex--a problem for wives but for husbands as well. As sexology and psychology gained greater influence, couples came to rely on the emotion-talk of commentators to negotiate mutually agreeable bedroom activity.
authors.affiliation: Birkbeck College.
authors.forename: Joanna
authors.initials: J
authors.lastname: Bourke
mesh_terms: D004954:Esthetics / Q000266:history*; D005260:Female; D049672:History, 19th Century; D049673:History, 20th Century; D006801:Humans; D008093:Literature, Modern / Q000266:history*; D008297:Male; D008393:Marriage / Q000266:history* / Q000331:legislation & jurisprudence; D012742:Sex Offenses / Q000266:history* / Q000331:legislation & jurisprudence