Self-esteem and communal responsiveness toward a flawed partner: the fair-weather care of low-self-esteem individuals.
Three studies provide evidence that people with low self-esteem, but not those with high self-esteem, distance themselves from a flawed partner in situations in which the flaws seem likely to reflect negatively on them. Participants with low (but not high) self-esteem reduced their motivation to care for the partner's needs when they felt they might share a partner's salient flaws (Study 1), when they were primed to focus on similarities between themselves and a socially devalued partner (Study 2), and when they learned that their partner was socially incompetent (Study 3). In Study 3, individuals with low (but not high) self-esteem provided less emotional support and experienced more public image threat when they learned that partners were socially incompetent. In addition, all three studies provided evidence that participants' distancing reduced their confidence in the partner's motivation to care for them, suggesting that distancing involves a cost to the self.
Department of Psychology, University of New Hampshire, Hurham, NH 03824, USA. edward.lemay@unh.edu
Edward P
EP
Lemay
Margaret S
MS
Clark
D000328:Adult; D003299:Cooperative Behavior; D003380:Courtship; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007206:Individuality; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D008297:Male; D008960:Models, Psychological; D009042:Motivation; D012649:Self Concept; D012923:Social Class; D012928:Social Desirability; D012938:Social Perception; D012941:Social Responsibility; D012944:Social Support