title: Helping adolescents who self-mutilate: parental descriptions.
abstract: OBJECTIVE
  The purpose of this qualitative descriptive study was to explore parental views on how to help adolescents who self-mutilate.
  
  
  BACKGROUND
  Self-harm, including self-mutilation, is common among adolescents. However, parental conceptions of helping adolescents who self-mutilate have rarely been investigated in nursing science.
  
  
  METHODS
  Qualitative descriptive design.
  
  
  METHODS
  Four parents of self-mutilating adolescents were interviewed in depth. Qualitative content analysis was applied.
  
  
  RESULTS
  Three main categories emerged: a description of an adolescent who self-mutilates and descriptions of ways to help self-mutilating adolescents and ways to help their parents and family. An adolescent who self-mutilates appears externally to feel very well, but inside feels lonely and inferior to others. Help may include an adolescent helping herself by performing some activities alone or in relation to other people and an adolescent receiving help from a safe and trusting human relationship. Such a relationship can be with anyone who knows about the self-mutilation and is of utmost importance, but a caring attitude is particularly expected from adults. Factors that facilitate helping were identified as well as those considered help-hindering or helpful. Help that had been provided to parents and the family included factors considered helpful and unhelpful.
  
  
  CONCLUSIONS
  Adolescents who self-mutilate try to help themselves, but are in need of external, probably professional help. Parents are in need of information about self-mutilation as a phenomenon to be able to help their children. Help for self-mutilating adolescents as perceived by their parents also includes help for the whole family.
  
  
  CONCLUSIONS
  The findings of this study could assist health care professionals in approaching and helping both self-mutilating adolescents and their parents.
authors: Department of Psychiatry, University Hospital of Kuopio, Kuopio, Finland. marja-liisa.rissanen@kuh.fi
authors: Marja-Liisa
authors: ML
authors: Rissanen
authors: Jari
authors: J
authors: Kylmä
authors: Eila
authors: E
authors: Laukkanen
mesh_terms: D000293:Adolescent; D000294:Adolescent Behavior; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D010287:Parent-Child Relations; D010290:Parents; D036301:Qualitative Research; D012307:Risk Factors; D012309:Risk-Taking; D012652:Self Mutilation