"A fool to keep staying": battered women labeling themselves stupid as an expression of gendered shame.
In this qualitative study with women who have left abusive heterosexual relationships, the informants labeling themselves stupid is investigated. Several different meanings ascribed to stupidity were found, with feeling stupid for allowing oneself to be mistreated and for staying in the abusive relationship as main themes. Four frames for interpreting the findings are presented: abusive relationship dynamics, gendered shame, the gender-equality-oriented Nordic context, and leaving processes. It is proposed that feeling- and labeling oneself-stupid is an expression of gendered shame or, more explicitly, of battered shame.
Enander
Viveka
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University of Gothenburg, SE 405 30 Göteborg, Sweden. aqut@hotmail.com
D000328:Adult; D018585:Battered Women / Q000523:psychology*; D017579:Domestic Violence / Q000523:psychology*; D005260:Female; D005783:Gender Identity; D006801:Humans; D007360:Intelligence; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D007407:Interviews as Topic; D008297:Male; D008875:Middle Aged; D012649:Self Concept; D012752:Shame; D013548:Sweden; D055815:Young Adult