title: Significant others and contingencies of self-worth: activation and consequences of relationship-specific contingencies of self-worth.
abstract: Three studies tested the activation and consequences of contingencies of self-worth associated with specific significant others, that is, relationship-specific contingencies of self-worth. The results showed that activating the mental representation of a significant other with whom one strongly desires closeness led participants to stake their self-esteem in domains in which the significant other wanted them to excel. This was shown in terms of self-reported contingencies of self-worth (Study 1), in terms of self-worth after receiving feedback on a successful or unsatisfactory performance in a relationship-specific contingency domain (Study 2), and in terms of feelings of reduced self-worth after thinking about a failure in a relationship-specific contingency domain (Study 3). Across studies, a variety of contingency domains were examined. Furthermore, Study 3 showed that failing in an activated relationship-specific contingency domain had negative implications for current feelings of closeness and acceptance in the significant-other relationship. Overall, the findings suggest that people's contingencies of self-worth depend on the social situation and that performance in relationship-specific contingency domains can influence people's perceptions of their relationships.
authors.affiliation: University of California, Berkeley, Berkeley, CA 94720-1650, USA. horberg@berkeley.edu
authors.forename: E J
authors.initials: EJ
authors.lastname: Horberg
authors.forename: Serena
authors.initials: S
authors.lastname: Chen
mesh_terms: D005195:Family Relations; D005219:Father-Child Relations; D030141:Feedback, Psychological; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D008297:Male; D009769:Object Attachment; D012044:Regression Analysis; D012649:Self Concept; D012931:Social Environment; D012938:Social Perception; D012944:Social Support