Attachment working models twist memories of relationship events.
The information that people remember about their relationships should be affected by their attachment orientations. This study investigated changes in individuals' memories of their own behavior during conflict-resolution discussions with their romantic partners. One week after each couple engaged in two videotaped conflict discussions, each partner's memory of the discussions was assessed. Memory biases were systematically related to attachment orientations. More avoidant individuals, for example, remembered being less supportive than they reported initially if they were relatively distressed during the discussions, whereas the opposite was true of less avoidant persons. More anxious individuals remembered being less emotionally distant than they reported initially if they were relatively distressed during the discussions, whereas the opposite was true of less anxious persons. We discuss the implications of these memory changes.
Simpson
Jeffry A
JA
Department of Psychology, University of Minnesota, Minneapolis, MN 55455-0344, USA. simps108@umn.edu
Rholes
W Steven
WS
Winterheld
Heike A
HA
D000293:Adolescent; D000328:Adult; D001007:Anxiety / Q000523:psychology; D003220:Conflict, Psychological; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D008297:Male; D011939:Mental Recall; D008960:Models, Psychological; D009769:Object Attachment; D011340:Problem Solving; D012929:Psychological Distance; D012649:Self Concept; D012944:Social Support; D055815:Young Adult