The first sight of love: Relationship-defining memories and marital satisfaction across adulthood.
The current study begins the exploration of relationship-defining memories (i.e., the first time someone met their spouse) across adulthood. Men and women ranging from 20 to 85 years old (N=267; M age=47.19) completed a measure of marital satisfaction, wrote a relationship-defining memory, and answered questions about the quality of their memory (i.e., vividness, valence, emotional intensity, and rehearsal). Data were collected online. Results indicate that individuals over 70 and those younger than 30 rehearsed relationship-defining memories most often. Women in midlife also reported more vivid memories. The quality of relationship-defining memories also predicted marital satisfaction. Relationship-defining memories that were more vivid, positive, emotionally intense, and rehearsed related to higher marital satisfaction. Age and gender differences were minimal. Results are discussed in the context of the adaptive social function of autobiographical memories, such that these memories might have a role in influencing marital satisfaction across adulthood.
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Nicole
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Department of Behavioural Sciences, Faculty ofSocial Sciences, University of the West Indies, St. Augustine, Trinidad & Tobago. Nicole.Albada@sta.uwi.edu
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Stephanie C
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D000328:Adult; D000368:Aged; D000369:Aged, 80 and over; D000375:Aging / Q000523:psychology; D004644:Emotions / Q000502:physiology; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008149:Love; D008297:Male; D008393:Marriage / Q000523:psychology*; D011939:Mental Recall; D008875:Middle Aged; D010549:Personal Satisfaction; D012727:Sex Characteristics; D055815:Young Adult