Using coping strategies is not denial: helping loved ones adjust to living with a patient with a palliative diagnosis.
BACKGROUND
When a patient receives the diagnosis of an incurable cancer, their loved ones have to face the fact that life will change. Realizing that the time together is with someone who is going to die, loved ones have to cope with the situation.


OBJECTIVE
The objective of this study was to increase the knowledge concerning what forms of coping strategies loved ones apply when a family member is faced with an incurable cancer.


METHODS
The study had a qualitative approach using in-depth interviews as data from a sample of consecutive loved ones. The interviews were audiotaped, transcribed verbatim, and analyzed using a manifest content analysis.


RESULTS
The main findings showed that the strategies used by loved ones could be categorized into four different areas: thinking that the death is far off in the future; hoping for an improvement; living in the present; and utilizing the family and personal network. The loved ones used these strategies in order to learn to live with the fact that their spouse had been diagnosed with an incurable illness.


CONCLUSIONS
The study shows that the manner in which the coping strategies are used is individual and also depends on how loved ones can cope with the concept of a dying person with whom they are very close. When loved ones have a need for support outside their personal network, it is important to understand that this need is directly related to coping strategies and that it is not a result of denial.
Benkel
Inger
I
Geriatrics Department, Palliative Unit, Gothenburg University, Gothenburg, Sweden. inger.benkel@vgregion.se
Wijk
Helle
H
Molander
Ulla
U
D000223:Adaptation, Psychological; D001293:Attitude to Death; D005190:Family / Q000523:psychology*; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007407:Interviews as Topic; D008297:Male; D009369:Neoplasms / Q000523:psychology*; D010166:Palliative Care; D019452:Terminally Ill