title: "Good enough stories": helping couples invest in one another's growth.
abstract: This article utilizes key constructs of the narrative metaphor: that stories organize, structure, and give meaning to events in our lives. When stories are used as a way to understand the lives of couples, they have the potential for enhancing individual and relational growth. It is proposed that knowing both our own and our partner's story and development goals increases the likelihood of making an investment in self/other and relational growth. It is further suggested that helping couples develop narratives with a sense of "We" promotes a more generative perspective. These ideas were developed in a small qualitative pilot study with long-married, middle-class, heterosexual couples, which suggested that the synthesis of each partner's life story into a couple story promoted individual and relational development. Implications for therapeutic work with couples are presented as well as specific recommendations for ways to utilize the life story approach as an aspect of treatment. It is intended to assist clinicians and teachers in translating narrative ideas into therapeutic work with couples.
authors.affiliation: School of Nursing/Health Sciences, University of San Diego, 5998 Alcala Park, San Diego, CA 92110, USA. kskerrett@ameritech.net
authors.forename: Karen
authors.initials: K
authors.lastname: Skerrett
mesh_terms: D005069:Evaluation Studies as Topic; D005190:Family / Q000523:psychology*; D005260:Female; D020010:Heterosexuality / Q000523:psychology; D006803:Human Development; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D008016:Life Change Events; D008297:Male; D008875:Middle Aged; D033262:Narration; D010865:Pilot Projects; D011606:Psychosexual Development; D012649:Self Concept; D012923:Social Class; D018454:Spouses / Q000523:psychology*