Heteronormativity and 'troubled' masculinities among men who have sex with men in Addis Ababa.
In most societies, heterosexuality is the dominant way of expressing sexuality and masculinity and those men outside of it are stigmatised and discriminated against. This paper explores the sexual lives of men who have sex with men and the personal and social conflicts that arise as they attempt to both live up to societal expectations and manage their sexual desires. It critically explores how an overriding heteronormativity structures and influences men's perception and understanding of sexuality and masculinity/femininity. The paper draws on data from 24 in-depth/life history interviews, one focus group discussion and ethnographic observation conducted between July 2006 and June 2007. The study reveals that powerful and dominating beliefs about heteronormativity and masculinity result in men who have sex with men dealing with a number of issues of personal conflict and contradiction resulting in uncertainty, resentment, ambivalence, worry and discomfort. Heteronormativity or the expectations of parents, community and society at large is far more influential on the sexuality of men who have sex with men than their own individual desires and needs. The paper concludes that there is little room for individuality for Ethiopian men who have sex with men with their sexual bodies 'belonging' to parents, families and to society at large.
Department of Sociology, Addis Ababa University, Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. getnett2001@yahoo.com
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D000223:Adaptation, Psychological; D000328:Adult; D000884:Anthropology, Cultural; D005002:Ethiopia; D017144:Focus Groups; D020010:Heterosexuality / Q000523:psychology*; D018451:Homosexuality, Male / Q000523:psychology*; D006801:Humans; D007406:Interview, Psychological; D008297:Male; D057228:Masculinity; D011287:Prejudice; D011477:Sex Work / Q000523:psychology; D012938:Social Perception; D013315:Stress, Psychological; D055815:Young Adult