title: Presidential address: self-image and compassionate goals and construction of the social self: implications for social and personality psychology.
abstract: Interpersonal dynamics of self-esteem are explored. The author proposes that the desire to be seen as having positive qualities and avoid being seen as having dreaded qualities paradoxically leads to lowered self-esteem and lowered regard from others through its adverse effects on interpersonal relationships. The author also argues that the human capacity to transcend concerns with the images others hold of oneself, through caring about the well-being of other people, paradoxically leads to higher self-esteem and regard from others through its salutary effects on relationships. Data from two recent studies demonstrate these paradoxical effects and prompt questions about the nature of persons and situations, research methods, and the union between personality and social psychology. Accordingly, the author reflects more broadly on how people create their social situations, which in turn create the self, and what that means about the methods scholars use to understand social behavior.
authors.affiliation: Department of Psychology, Ohio State University, Columbus, OH 43210, USA. crocker.37@osu.edu
authors.forename: Jennifer
authors.initials: J
authors.lastname: Crocker
mesh_terms: D004645:Empathy; D006040:Goals; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D010551:Personality; D011593:Psychology, Social; D012649:Self Concept; D012919:Social Behavior; D012938:Social Perception