title: The role of violated caregiver preferences in psychological well-being when older mothers need assistance.
abstract: OBJECTIVE
  Theory and research suggest that congruence between individuals' preferences for future care and the patterns of care received will affect well-being. In this article, we explore whether older mothers' psychological well-being was affected by the children they preferred as future caregivers and provide assistance at a later point when the mothers experience illness or injury.
  
  
  METHODS
  In this article, we use a combination of quantitative and qualitative data collected from 234 older mothers at two points 7 years apart, beginning when the mothers were 65-75 years of age.
  
  
  RESULTS
  Multivariate analyses demonstrated that mothers who received assistance from children whom the mothers did not identify as their preferred future caregivers reported higher depressive symptoms at the second wave; receiving care from children identified as preferred caregivers did not affect well-being. Qualitative data suggested that these patterns occurred because the "alternate" caregivers did not possess the socioemotional attributes of preferred children.
  
  
  CONCLUSIONS
  These findings contribute to a growing body of research demonstrating the consequences of violated preferences, particularly when individuals are in need of support in later life.
authors.affiliation: Department of Sociology and Center on Aging and the Life Course, 355 Stone Hall, Purdue University, West Lafayette, IN 47907, USA. jsuitor@purdue.edu
authors.forename: J Jill
authors.initials: JJ
authors.lastname: Suitor
authors.forename: Megan
authors.initials: M
authors.lastname: Gilligan
authors.forename: Karl
authors.initials: K
authors.lastname: Pillemer
authors.forename: Rachel
authors.initials: R
authors.lastname: Pruchno
mesh_terms: D000222:Adaptation, Physiological; D032721:Adult Children; D000368:Aged; D000369:Aged, 80 and over; D017028:Caregivers / Q000523:psychology*; D003863:Depression / Q000209:etiology / Q000523:psychology; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D016901:Intergenerational Relations; D007407:Interviews as Topic; D008297:Male; D008404:Massachusetts; D009035:Mothers / Q000523:psychology*; D015999:Multivariate Analysis; D010287:Parent-Child Relations; D036301:Qualitative Research; D011788:Quality of Life; D012944:Social Support; D011795:Surveys and Questionnaires