title: "It feels so good it almost hurts": young adults' experiences of orgasm and sexual pleasure.
abstract: Orgasm is a "goal" of much sexual activity, and a source of potentially intense pleasure and fulfillment, yet can be fraught with difficulty or distress. Relatively little social science research has explored people's experiences around, and their meanings related to, orgasm, and indeed other sexual pleasures, especially with young adults. This study aimed to provide a rich exploration of the meanings associated with orgasm and sexual pleasure during sex with a partner, to understand the social patterning of orgasm experience. A qualitative survey was used to collect data from 119 sexually experienced British young adults (81% women, mean age 20, 92% heterosexual). A descriptive form of thematic analysis that prioritizes participants' meanings and experiences was used to identify and explore patterns in the data. Five main themes are reported here: (a) orgasm: the purpose and end of sex; (b) "it's more about my partner's orgasm"; (c) orgasm: the ultimate pleasure?; (d) orgasm is not a simple physiological response; and (e) faking orgasm is not uncommon. These (mostly not gendered) themes demonstrate the complex and contradictory meanings around orgasm, and reveal meaning to be dependent on situation and context. However, they do resonate strongly with widespread discourses of sexuality that prioritize heterosexual coitus, orgasm, and orgasm reciprocity.
authors: a Department of Family Relations and Applied Human Nutrition , University of Guelph.
authors: Emily
authors: E
authors: Opperman
authors: Virginia
authors: V
authors: Braun
authors: Victoria
authors: V
authors: Clarke
authors: Cassandra
authors: C
authors: Rogers
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D009948:Orgasm / Q000502:physiology*; D057181:Pleasure / Q000502:physiology*; D036301:Qualitative Research; D012725:Sexual Behavior / Q000523:psychology*; D055815:Young Adult