title: Healing the social self: how parents whose children were killed in terror attacks construct the experience of help.
abstract: This study focuses on expressed needs and structures of assistance received by Israeli parents whose children were killed in terror attacks. The loss takes place within a multi-systemic network that can be a healing force and/or a distorting factor in the grief process. The qualitative research paradigm employed privileges the knowledge of the parents themselves. In-depth interviews were conducted with 16 parents. (1) The primary criterion that determines the parents' attribution of helpfulness is perceived inclusiveness. (2) The subsystem of "family of the bereaved" is salient in the healing process. (3) There is a clear preference for the services provided by NGO's as opposed to governmental agencies. (4) The bereaved parents engage the symbolic level of the macro-system-the heritage of the Jewish people. The article concludes with the practical implications of the findings for the development and delivery of psychosocial services to parents bereaved in terror attacks.
authors.affiliation: School of Social Work, Ariel University Center, P.O.B. 3, 40700, Ariel, Israel, chayapossick@gmail.com.
authors.forename: Chaya
authors.initials: C
authors.lastname: Possick
authors.forename: Michal
authors.initials: M
authors.lastname: Shamai
authors.forename: Ruth Ann
authors.initials: RA
authors.lastname: Sadeh
mesh_terms: D000223:Adaptation, Psychological; D002675:Child, Preschool; D005190:Family / Q000523:psychology; D006117:Grief; D006693:Holidays / Q000523:psychology; D006801:Humans; D007407:Interviews as Topic; D007557:Israel; D008605:Mental Health Services; D010290:Parents / Q000523:psychology*; D036301:Qualitative Research; D012944:Social Support; D023481:Terrorism / Q000523:psychology*