title: How lesbian and heterosexual women view relationships, sex, and virginity: explorations with a Singapore sample.
abstract: Thirty-eight lesbian and 38 heterosexual women in Singapore (ages 21 to 35) discussed relationships, sex, and virginity in focus groups. Views were mostly similar between the two groups, although there were differences. All participants defined relationships as romantic involvement. However, while heterosexual participants equated commitment with monogamy, lesbian participants distinguished them. All participants differentiated between having sex (for thrill and fun) and making love (for expressing love), although there were differences in the purposes of making love. Primacy of penetration was found in defining virginity loss, but for many participants, virginity was important only insofar as it indicated sexual permissiveness.
authors.affiliation: a Department of Psychology , National University of Singapore , Singapore , Republic of Singapore.
authors.forename: Anqi
authors.initials: A
authors.lastname: Ho
authors.forename: Tick Ngee
authors.initials: TN
authors.lastname: Sim
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D001290:Attitude; D005260:Female; D020010:Heterosexuality / Q000523:psychology*; D018452:Homosexuality, Female / Q000523:psychology*; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D012746:Sexual Abstinence / Q000523:psychology*; D012725:Sexual Behavior / Q000523:psychology*; D012846:Singapore / Q000453:epidemiology; D055815:Young Adult