title: Widowhood in old age: viewed in a family context.
abstract: Researchers and clinicians have traditionally explored widowhood as an intrapersonal process. We expand the paradigm of bereavement research to explore the widow's perceptions of her experience within a family context. In a study of family bereavement, 24 widows each participated in 2 separate qualitative interviews, followed by standard qualitative analyses of the transcribed narratives. Three inter-related central topics emerged. (1) Widows stress the importance of their independence vis a vis their family as central to their sense of identity. (2) Widows perceive that they and their adult children avoid expressing their feelings of sadness and loss with each other. (3) Widows believe that their children are unable to understand the meaning of the widows' loss because of differences in generations and life situations. Two inter-woven underlying themes emerged: protection of self and of other, and boundaries between widow and children. Just as protection is rooted in a dynamic of separation between widow and child, boundaries are rooted in their deep bond. When researchers and clinicians recognize the dynamics of these two themes they can potentially increase understanding of widowhood within the context of the family.
authors.affiliation: Arcadia University, 450 South Easton Road, Glenside, PA 19038, United States.
authors.forename: Miriam S
authors.initials: MS
authors.lastname: Moss
authors.affiliation: Arcadia University, 450 South Easton Road, Glenside, PA 19038, United States.
authors.forename: Sidney Z
authors.initials: SZ
authors.lastname: Moss
mesh_terms: D000203:Activities of Daily Living; D000223:Adaptation, Psychological; D000368:Aged; D000369:Aged, 80 and over; D001293:Attitude to Death; D001601:Bereavement; D005195:Family Relations; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D020377:Self Efficacy; D012933:Social Identification; D012944:Social Support; D014481:United States; D017805:Widowhood / Q000523:psychology*
keywords: Bereavement; Boundaries; Family; Protection; Widowhood