title: Empathy and silence in pastoral care for traumatic grief and loss.
abstract: This paper evaluates silence as a therapeutic practice in pastoral care for traumatic grief and loss. Informed by the history of attachment and mourning theory, its research considers the basic effect that empathy has upon the therapeutic relationship around psychic difference. The study appraises the potential resources and detriments that empathic language may have for the grief process. Offering clinical examples in hospice chaplaincy, it refutes the idea that silence is formulaic tool to be used. It instead offers silence as the acceptance of the limits of empathic language and the affirmation of psychological difference and theological wholeness.
authors.affiliation: Graduate Department of Religion, Vanderbilt University, 411 21st Avenue South, Nashville, TN, 37240, USA, peter.capretto@vanderbilt.edu.
authors.forename: Peter
authors.initials: P
authors.lastname: Capretto
mesh_terms: D001601:Bereavement; D002977:Clergy; D004645:Empathy; D006117:Grief; D006738:Hospices; D006801:Humans; D009633:Nonverbal Communication; D009769:Object Attachment; D010327:Pastoral Care / Q000379:methods*; D012069:Religion and Psychology; D026443:Spiritual Therapies / Q000379:methods; D029181:Spirituality; D014947:Wounds and Injuries / Q000523:psychology*