title: Midlife mothers favor `being with' children over work and careers.
abstract: BACKGROUND
  The majority of American women juggle careers and the demands of mothering. The experiences of midlife mothers on the issues of work and motherhood are important to explore because birth rates for older women continue to rise in the United States and in other countries including the U.K. and Canada.
  
  
  OBJECTIVE
  To present a unique viewpoint on work and mothering from the perspectives and experiences of older first-time mothers.
  
  
  METHODS
  A purposive sample of thirteen women aged 45-56 years old participated in two in-depth interviews. Findings emerged in the context of a larger hermeneutic phenomenological study that aimed to understand older first-time mothers' perceptions of health and mothering during the transition to menopause.
  
  
  RESULTS
  A paradox emerged in which the realities of motherhood did not meet the women's expectations. They were surprised by the centrality of commitment they felt towards the child and voiced strong ideals about how to do mothering right that included making changes to work schedules to be more available to their children.
  
  
  CONCLUSIONS
  Health care professionals should be aware of specific issues that exist for older first-time mothers including adjustments to work. This knowledge will inform the support, education and care provided for these women.
authors.affiliation: Department of Nursing, School of Health and Natural Sciences, University of Saint Joseph, West Hartford, CT, USA.
authors.forename: Patricia Ann
authors.initials: PA
authors.lastname: Morgan
authors.affiliation: Public Health Nursing, College of Human and Health Sciences, Swansea University, Swansea, Wales, UK.
authors.forename: Joy A
authors.initials: JA
authors.lastname: Merrell
authors.affiliation: College of Nursing, East Carolina University, Greenville, NC, USA.
authors.forename: Dorothy
authors.initials: D
authors.lastname: Rentschler
mesh_terms: D000367:Age Factors; D002755:Choice Behavior; D004651:Employment; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007407:Interviews as Topic; D008875:Middle Aged; D009035:Mothers / Q000523:psychology*; D016487:Parenting; D036301:Qualitative Research
keywords: Hermeneutic; mothering; older mothers; phenomenology; qualitative research