title: Men's constructions of masculinity and male sexuality through talk of buying sex.
abstract: Commercial sex is an everyday occurrence across a range of contexts in South Africa. In this paper we turn our attention to the often-marginalised role of the buyers of sex by drawing on narrative interviews with male clients of female sex workers recruited through online advertisements in order to explore the ways in which heterosexual men construct, negotiate and perform their masculinity and sexuality through talking about their experiences of paying for sex. We highlight parallels between men's narratives of paying for sex and dominant discourses of gender and heterosexuality. We show how men draw on heteronormative sexual scripts in constructing and making sense of paid sexual encounters and how men are simultaneously able to construct and enact a particular idealised version of masculinity and male sexuality through their talk on paying for sex. Finally, we discuss how online resources could be used more extensively in future research with the male clients of sex workers.
authors.affiliation: a Department of Psychology , University of Cape Town , Cape Town , South Africa.
authors.forename: Monique
authors.initials: M
authors.lastname: Huysamen
authors.forename: Floretta
authors.initials: F
authors.lastname: Boonzaier
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D000368:Aged; D020010:Heterosexuality; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D057228:Masculinity; D008571:Men; D008875:Middle Aged; D036301:Qualitative Research; D011477:Sex Work; D019529:Sexuality; D013019:South Africa
keywords: South Africa; clients; masculinity; online research; sex work