title: Demand behavior and empathic accuracy in observed conflict interactions in couples.
abstract: The study reported in this research note sought to extend the research on motivated empathic accuracy by exploring whether intimate partners who are highly motivated to induce change in their partner during conflicts will be more empathically accurate than partners who are less motivated. In a laboratory experiment, the partners within 26 cohabiting couples were randomly assigned the role of conflict initiator. The partners provided questionnaire data, participated in a videotaped conflict interaction, and completed a video-review task. More blaming behavior was associated with higher levels of empathic accuracy, irrespective of whether one was the conflict initiator or not. The results also showed a two-way interaction indicating that initiators who applied more pressure on their partners to change were less empathically accurate than initiators who applied less pressure, whereas their partners could counter this pressure when they could accurately "read" the initiator's thoughts and feelings.
authors.affiliation: a Ghent University.
authors.forename: Céline
authors.initials: C
authors.lastname: Hinnekens
authors.affiliation: b University of Texas at Arlington.
authors.forename: William
authors.initials: W
authors.lastname: Ickes
authors.affiliation: a Ghent University.
authors.forename: Maarten De
authors.initials: MD
authors.lastname: Schryver
authors.affiliation: a Ghent University.
authors.forename: Lesley L
authors.initials: LL
authors.lastname: Verhofstadt
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D003220:Conflict, Psychological; D004645:Empathy; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D007398:Interpersonal Relations; D008297:Male; D008875:Middle Aged; D012919:Social Behavior; D018454:Spouses / Q000523:psychology*
keywords: Conflict interactions; demand behaviour; empathic accuracy; intimate relationships