title: Children's experiences of domestic violence and abuse: Siblings' accounts of relational coping.
abstract: This article explores how children see their relationships, particularly their sibling relationships, in families affected by domestic violence (DV) and how relationality emerges in their accounts as a resource to build an agentic sense of self. The 'voice' of children is largely absent from the DV literature, which typically portrays them as passive, damaged and relationally incompetent. Children's own understandings of their relational worlds are often overlooked, and consequently, existing models of children's social interactions give inadequate accounts of their meaning-making-in-context. Drawn from a larger study of children's experiences of DV and abuse, this article uses two case studies of sibling relationships to explore young people's use of relational resources, for coping with violence in the home. The article explores how relationality and coping intertwine in young people's accounts and disrupts the taken-for-granted assumption that children's 'premature caring' or 'parentification' is (only) pathological in children's responses to DV. This has implications for understanding young people's experiences in the present and supporting their capacity for relationship building in the future.
authors.affiliation: Division of Psychology, University of Northampton, UK jane.callaghan@northampton.ac.uk.
authors.forename: Jane E M
authors.initials: JE
authors.lastname: Callaghan
authors.affiliation: Centre for Children and Youth, University of Northampton, UK.
authors.forename: Joanne H
authors.initials: JH
authors.lastname: Alexander
authors.affiliation: Institute of Health and Wellbeing, University of Northampton, UK.
authors.forename: Judith
authors.initials: J
authors.lastname: Sixsmith
authors.affiliation: Division of Psychology, University of Northampton, UK.
authors.forename: Lisa C
authors.initials: LC
authors.lastname: Fellin
mesh_terms: D000223:Adaptation, Psychological; D002648:Child; D002649:Child Abuse / Q000523:psychology*; D017579:Domestic Violence / Q000523:psychology*; D005195:Family Relations / Q000523:psychology*; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D035781:Siblings / Q000523:psychology*
keywords: children; domestic violence; family; interpersonal violence; relational coping; relationality; siblings; space