title: Does Sex Really Matter? Examining the Connections Between Spouses' Nonsexual Behaviors, Sexual Frequency, Sexual Satisfaction, and Marital Satisfaction.
abstract: We examined the interplay between husbands' and wives' positive and negative nonsexual interpersonal behaviors, frequency of sexual intercourse, sexual satisfaction, and feelings of marital satisfaction. To do this, we conducted an in-depth face-to-face interview and completed a series of telephone diaries with 105 couples during their second, third, and fourteenth years of marriage. Consistent with the argument that women's sexual response is tied to intimacy (Basson, 2000), multilevel analyses revealed that husbands' positive interpersonal behaviors directed toward their wives-but not wives' positivity nor spouses' negative behaviors (regardless of gender)-predicted the frequency with which couples engaged in intercourse. The frequency of sexual intercourse and interpersonal negativity predicted both husbands' and wives' sexual satisfaction; wives' positive behaviors were also tied to husbands' sexual satisfaction. When spouses' interpersonal behaviors, frequency of sexual intercourse, and sexual satisfaction were considered in tandem, all but the frequency of sexual intercourse were associated with marital satisfaction. When it comes to feelings of marital satisfaction, therefore, a satisfying sex life and a warm interpersonal climate appear to matter more than does a greater frequency of sexual intercourse. Collectively, these findings shed much-needed light on the interplay between the nonsexual interpersonal climate of marriage and spouses' sexual relationships.
authors.affiliation: Youth & Family Alliance dba LifeWorks, 835 N. Pleasant Valley Rd., Austin, TX, 78702, USA. eschoenfeld@utexas.edu.|Department of Human Development & Family Sciences, The University of Texas at Austin, Austin, TX, USA. eschoenfeld@utexas.edu.
authors.forename: Elizabeth A
authors.initials: EA
authors.lastname: Schoenfeld
authors.affiliation: Department of Human Development & Family Sciences, The University of Texas at Austin, Austin, TX, USA.
authors.forename: Timothy J
authors.initials: TJ
authors.lastname: Loving
authors.affiliation: Department of Human Development & Family Sciences, The University of Texas at Austin, Austin, TX, USA.
authors.forename: Mark T
authors.initials: MT
authors.lastname: Pope
authors.affiliation: Department of Human Development & Family Sciences, The University of Texas at Austin, Austin, TX, USA.
authors.forename: Ted L
authors.initials: TL
authors.lastname: Huston
authors.affiliation: Department of Sociology, University of Zagreb, Zagreb, Croatia.
authors.forename: Aleksandar
authors.initials: A
authors.lastname: Štulhofer
mesh_terms: D000328:Adult; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D008393:Marriage / Q000523:psychology*; D010549:Personal Satisfaction; D012725:Sexual Behavior / Q000523:psychology*; D018454:Spouses / Q000523:psychology*
keywords: Interpersonal behaviors; Marital satisfaction; Marriage; Sex; Sexual satisfaction