title: Holding the Tension.
abstract: My colleagues and I had been asked by a member of a clinical team to help sort through the ethics of stopping a life-sustaining intervention for a very ill child. We had already talked with the parents, the physicians, and the folks from nursing, social work, and chaplaincy. Terms like "suffering," "cruel," "compassion," and "moral distress" had been uttered, as had terms like "inappropriate," "unethical," "neglectful," and "risk-management." The group had now stuffed all of these polarizing thoughts and feelings into this cramped room with only one door. And everyone was looking at me. What skill, competency, or inner capacity must one possess to hold and manage such tension?
authors.forename: Chris
authors.initials: C
authors.lastname: Feudtner
mesh_terms: D001291:Attitude of Health Personnel; D002648:Child; D002673:Child, Hospitalized; D004645:Empathy; D006801:Humans; D028761:Withholding Treatment / Q000941:ethics*