title: Creating a family through connection websites and events: ethical and social issues.
abstract: Over the years, connection websites and speed dating events have increasingly attracted singles and couples who cannot have a child in the 'traditional' way. These initiatives bring together candidate gamete providers and recipients with the promise of offering more freedom of choice than fertility centres or sperm banks currently do. Depending on the level of contact desired, the role of the gamete provider may range from not being involved at all to sharing full parental rights and obligations. In this paper, we take a look at the ethical and social issues that emerge with these new forms of family arrangements. We suggest that, although the private arrangements promote greater autonomy and control for all parties involved, risks and questionable assumptions are also at play. In particular, risks involve insufficient screening of the involved donor or co-parent, particularly in terms of motives and psychological characteristics. One must also be wary of the risk of unregulated commercialization and, more importantly, of disappointments and legal conflicts caused by unclear or changing expectations. We also warn for the risk of reinforcing heterosexist and genetic norms of parenting and valid family building.
authors: Department of Philosophy, Bioethics Institute Ghent, Ghent University, Blandijnberg 2, Ghent 9000, Belgium. Electronic address: an.ravelingien@ugent.be.
authors: An
authors: A
authors: Ravelingien
authors: Department of Philosophy, Bioethics Institute Ghent, Ghent University, Blandijnberg 2, Ghent 9000, Belgium.
authors: Veerle
authors: V
authors: Provoost
authors: Department of Philosophy, Bioethics Institute Ghent, Ghent University, Blandijnberg 2, Ghent 9000, Belgium.
authors: Guido
authors: G
authors: Pennings
mesh_terms: D030881:Disclosure / Q000941:ethics*; D005190:Family / Q000523:psychology*; D005260:Female; D006801:Humans; D008297:Male; D009042:Motivation; D018587:Oocyte Donation / Q000941:ethics*; D016487:Parenting / Q000523:psychology*; D010290:Parents; D066262:Social Norms; D014019:Tissue Donors / Q000941:ethics* / Q000331:legislation & jurisprudence
keywords: biological parenthood; ethics; gamete donation; identifiable donation; parental rights; sperm banks